You know when he’s lying. You may not be able to prove it, but you know in your heart. But there is always that uncertainty. Are you just over reacting? Is there is a rational explanation for his suspicious behavior? Maybe… but maybe not. You deserve to be with someone you can trust and you deserve to know the truth… even if the truth hurts. Here are the ‘signs of cheating boyfriend’ you need to look for.
Cellphone activity. Keep a close eye on his cellphone behavior. If he’s cheating, he’s probably talking to the other woman on his cellphone. Even if he’s careful to cover his tracks, there is a good chance he will make a mistake here. Check call lists and text messages. Is he deleting these? Is he always sneaking off to use his phone so he can talk in private? Is he hiding his phone from you? Do you catch him whispering or suddenly hanging up when you walk into a room?
Appearance. Look for any sudden and drastic change in his personal appearance. Guys don’t usually drastically change their appearance without the influence of a woman. New clothes, new haircut, new cologne, etc. If he says he’s going to a buddy’s house or running an errand but he’s dressed in his best clothes, be suspicious.
Personal hygiene. A cheating guy will often shower as soon as he gets home or do a lot of laundry. Is this out of character for him? If so, he may be trying to eliminate smells that could get him busted. Be extra aware of any strange perfume or lotion smells that aren’t yours.
Internet. Is he acting nervous around the computer while checking emails or chatting online? Does he suddenly log out when you walk into the room? Internet activity is a good way to find out if your man is cheating. There are even ways to check his online activity that he probably isn’t aware of. If you’re serious about getting proof, you may want to look into this.
You have to ask yourself if you’re ready to really know the truth. Some women don’t want to know… they are afraid of losing him or are living in denial. But ignoring the truth won’t make it go away. If you know the truth, at least you can take steps to salvage the relationship. Look carefully for these signs of cheating. If he’s behaving this way, then it’s probably time to get proof. Without proof, he will deny everything and you will be stuck in a world of heartache and uncertainty.